Wednesday, March 16, 2011

The Jalen Rose "Controversy"

I watched the Fab 5 documentary on ESPN on Sunday night and I thought it was outstanding. Not as good as the 30 for 30 documentaries on The U and Two Escobars but very, very good in it's own right. I remember watching them play in the early 90s like it was yesterday and the documentary helped me to relive some of that.

Many have already heard the controversy that arose when the clip of Jalen Rose aired in the commercials previewing the film. I know one message board I frequent (***cough*** Orangebloods.com ***cough***) that went into a tizzy on a couple of threads when Rose said the following:
"For me Duke was personal. I hated Duke, and I hated everything I felt Duke stood for. Schools like Duke didn’t recruit players like me. I felt like they only recruited black players that were Uncle Toms."
As always, we don't get the full story in just the previews...



Look at that again:
"I was jealous of Grant Hill. He came from a great black family. Congratulations, your mom went to college and was roommates with Hillary Clinton. And your dad played in the NFL — a very well-spoken and successful man. I was upset and bitter my mom had to bust her hump for 20-plus years. I was bitter that I had a professional athlete that was my father that I didn’t know. I resented that more than I resented him. I looked at it as they are who the world accepts and we are who the world hates."

Jalen Rose went on ESPN's First Take yesterday to discuss those comments again.

“As a 17-year-old recruit, that’s exactly how I felt. I felt like I was an inner-city kid from the public school league that was waking up with kerosene heaters for heat in the house, boiling water to wash up, sleeping with hoodies and skullies, that at that time I felt like I wasn’t good enough for certain stages. That’s just a fact,” Rose said. "But also it was something I used as motivation. Now, I understand what their program represents because I’m a mature adult. I know that it’s a private school. I know that they do recruit players from well-to-do, affluent families, but also I understand some of the reason why. So that they don’t see some of their players selling goods or selling their rings for money. Also they want to get kids that are going to represent the program the right way. I get all of that. But that’s the minority, I was speaking for the majority. That’s exactly how I felt then.

Skip Bayless: “So you don’t feel that way today nearly as strongly?

Rose: “Well the bottom line is this, they do recruit a certain type of player. They recruit a lot of players from private schools

Dana Jacobson: “Would they recruit you now?”

Rose: “I think they would recruit my kids. I don’t think they would have recruited me. I never seen Coach K in Detroit, but that’s just me.”

In my opinion, this really isn't the hot button topic that media (or even society as a whole) wants it to be. It's one guy's opinion. I don't think it's necessarily right or wrong but society is so sensitive to race discussions these days that we HAVE to talk about it. That being said, I believe Rose is saying what a lot of people from his upbringing feel. They long to have the type of two parent home life they see in other families and everything else stems from that.

Everyone will continue to discuss it and try to dissect it all kinds of ways. I even read that Grant Hill is working on a rebuttal through the New York Times (edit; here it is: Grant Hill's response). At the end of the day, Duke and Coach K recruit a certain type of player for their program. In my opinion, it has more to do with those who will be extremely disciplined within a set system and have a greater propensity to stay four years (and not so much the one and done types) than it does where in a city you're from. Ironically, Chris Webber went to a private school and was never near the thug he tried to pretend to be. Coach K recruited him (and as Rose pointed out, Webber went to the same school Shane Battier attended). Generally speaking, players from affluent families that send their kids to private high schools tend to fit that mold of a "Coach K player." Is there anything wrong with that? I don't think so. Doesn't necessarily mean those are the best players to go after for every system either. But it works for Duke. They go for certain players that play within a certain scheme. Some players just don't fit that mold (think Allen Iverson types).

That's no different than a player from Stanford (or somewhere similar) commenting that the old Miami football teams recruited fast guys from the hood and as a result, wouldn't even look at the suburban kid that always loved Miami growing up. You don't see Florida teams beating down the doors of players in the northern states because for the most part, their "type" of player doesn't come from that area. Not to say that if a kid there were to fit their mold they wouldn't go after them but on the whole, they don't have. I have friends that HATE Texas with a passion because we don't recruit junior college football players. It doesn't mean they hate me but just points more to the fact that at one time they were huge fans of Texas growing up, had to go a different route out of high school and soured to the fact that for whatever reason, we chose not to recruit them out of junior college. I have absolutely no problem with that at all and I think that is very similar to the situation here, just without using the racial undertones.

Too often we get hung up on a person's choice of words that we miss everything else that was involved with the conversation. In this case it's the phrase "Uncle Tom." Personally I think the context in which Rose used the term was incorrect anyways but ultimately I think it's a big deal over nothing. I come from a two parent home where my parents worked hard to provide for my brother and I. I have cousins who were less fortunate in that regard that used to pick at me when we were younger and call my brother and I "white boy" and stuff like that just because we talked a bit more proper than they did or dressed a certain way. It was all in jest and I don't harbor ill feelings towards them because of it. It's just a reflection of people expressing their opinions, often out of the frustrations they experience in their immediate vicinity or the unfamiliarity that comes when you see something "different" than what you're used to on a daily basis.

I could go on and on about this topic but honestly I don't think it's needed. Sometimes we should all just take a step back and chill out. It helps to read more than just a headline or a snippet of a conversation too before forming an opinion.

What do you think?

-M.G.M.

Monday, March 14, 2011

Weekend Recap: Austin

To Austin I went. I had no real plans set in stone...just wanted to see some family and friends I hadn't seen in a while.

Friday night I went to Pappadeaux with my mom and some friends. I polished off a couple Hurricanes along with some fried alligator (tastes like spicy chicken if you've never had it) and one of my favorite meals there, the Crawfish Trio. It's not on the menu but its basically fried crawfish, crawfish etoufee and sauteed crawfish. We sat up and drank and laughed about random stuff and it was just an overall good time.

After dinner, my boy Kevin and I went out. This was the first time I'd actually been to 6th Street in a LONG time so I was curious to see how it would go. It was good to catch up with Kevin and chop it up. Our schedules are so hectic that between our jobs and me living in Grand Prairie now (and most of my friends still living in Austin or Houston), I don't get to see everyone as often as I'd like to. That all being said, 6th Street is NOTHING like it was when we were in college. Sure there's plenty of bars to still hop to and from but they just aren't of the same quality. I remember going to Daiquiri Factory, Amazon, The Drink (ahhhhh The Drink) and Colorado Room (which became Zero Degrees which has now turned into God knows what). There just aren't any real go-to spots these days. I actually prefer the Warehouse District anyways as of late. All the same, we had a good time and bumped into a couple of my college teammates that were in town so that's always a plus.

I'd heard good reviews about VY's restaurant and my mom kept asking about it so we decided to check it out. A friend hooked us up with reservations in the Perfect 10 room (thanks Bita) so my folks, my Auntie Donna and my grandpa (we call him Paw Paw) were all able to enjoy a nice evening at Vince Young Steakhouse. I plan on bringing my brother back here during Texas Relays (he had to work and couldn't come with us this time around). It's really great to see my teammates step out into other endeavours so I always try to support them whenever I can.

We were seated right away and Paw Paw and I decided on having a few inVINCEables (Patron Silver, Patron Citrouge, agave nector,
fresh lime and citrus salt rim).


My mom and Auntie Donna settled on Burnt Orange-Tinis (Savvy vodka, pomegranate liqueur, fresh orange and candied orange garnish). My pops settled on some H20 on the rocks.

We all shared some lamb chops and calimari for an appetizer while trying to figure out what we'd eat as a meal. My mom went with the 12 oz Filet Mignon and Auntie Donna went with a Grilled Caesar Salad (she added chicken to it). Paw Paw went with the 16 oz Prime Rib Eye Steak and my pops and I went with the 22 oz Prime Bone In Rib Eye Steaks. I topped mine with blue cheese crumbles.


We ordered a bunch of sides so we could all have some: Bacon Mac and Cheese, Brocolli and Cheese and Spinach Two Ways (Sauteed and Creamed). We left just enough room to share some Chocolate Cake and Crème Brulee before we called it a night. All in all it was a great evening and we really enjoyed the meal. Real relaxed atmoshphere and great service.

Sunday I just lounged around a bit. For whatever reason losing that hour when we spring forward each year always seems to take a toll on me. Watched some TV and went to my Auntie Donna's house for a bit before heading back home to Grand Prairie. I got home just in time to watch the Fab 5 documentary on ESPN. I remembered watching them in the early 90s like it was yesterday. This was actually the first time I ever saw that Chris Webber was actually encouraged to call a timeout by people from his own bench. I became an even bigger fan of Jalen Rose too. I'm not going to go too in depth with my Jalen Rose commentary just yet because I want to do a blog about some comments he made (and some of the reaction received) tomorrow. It was a great documentary but at the end of the day I still think the 30 for 30 documentaries about The U and The Two Escobars were better.

Pretty good weekend if I do say so myself. Now back to our regularly scheduled program.

-M.G.M.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

YouTube Thursdays: Betty Can't Get Wright

Part of me thinks I might be going to hell for posting this. The other part of me knows I'm saved and prayed up. Just watch and have a great Thursday. Weekend is almost here.

-M.G.M.



BONUS: Phill Wade - Eat Food (Cee-Lo - Forget You parody)

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Philly Steaks

I meant to do a weekend wrap up but never got around to it since I had a midterm in my management class last night.

All the same, this is where I kicked off this past weekend:


For anyone in the Mansfield/Grand Prairie/Arlington area Donnie's is located at 8020 Matlock Rd. in Arlington, TX. On this particular day I made the trip with my boy Doc Patton. The second you walk in the door you'll hear "Hey! Love you!" I'll admit, this caught me off guard at first but I'm used to it now. It's just Donnie's way of greating you. She does it ALL by herself. No help whatsoever. She doesn't write anything down. You place your order and she goes to cooking and tells you to "pay me later" (as in after you eat). She's originally from Philadelphia and while I've never been there, I've concluded this Philly Steak has to be just as good as anything I can find in Philly. From what I've been told, many people from Philly often frequent this place to get their taste of home. I'm going to bring my boy Steve here one day and get his take.

Quick peak at the menu:




My version sports mustard instead of mayo, no tomatoes, grilled onions, peppers and jalapenos, cheese (provolone...not the Cheese Whiz variety) and some special sauce she throws on them as well. She also does fries with salt and vinegar (or sweet potato fries if you prefer). At any rate, mine didn't last long:



She also makes tons of different desserts from scratch including all kinds of cheesecakes (my favorite is the sweet potato cheesecake...it didn't last long enough for me to snap any pics), bananna pudding and even gets Tastykakes flown in from Philadelphia. My mom loves the butterscotch ones so I always buy her some when I can.

Give Donnie's Hot Dog Shop & Philly Steak a try if you're in the area. I don't think you'll be sorry.

-M.G.M.